Just Thinking Out Loud

August 20, 2008

Task after Task

Filed under: Productivity — laranieberding @ 9:15 am

“…consistently getting reasonably close to your objective, task after task, will put you far ahead  of most other people.” ~Martha Beck (March, 2008 O Magazine)

 

I catch myself thinking “If only I won the lottery…”  I know this is not an uncommon thought.  The fact that I frequently pass a billboard advertising the lottery jack pot does not help either.  It makes me wonder why do we think we deserve an easy ride in life?  We all have our challenges.  Isn’t that what makes a robust life?  So if we are somewhere close to where we want to be, isn’t that satisfactory?

 

I know I am where I want to be.  I know I am where I need to be.  I don’t know where I should be going.  I need a new objective to work task after task towards.

August 13, 2008

The Power of Lists

Filed under: Productivity — laranieberding @ 9:15 am

“The power or powerlessness of your lists depends on the level of awareness from which you write it.” ~Martha Beck (February, 2008 O Magazine)

 

When I was 13 years old I liked creating designs on graph paper.  One day I drew a house.  I carefully laid out each room.  To this day I remember the inner narration in my head as I contemplated the reason a room should be placed in the location I assigned it.  Flash forward 23 years.  I live in the house I drew on graph paper.

 

I do not know how it happened.  I gave the original drawing away.  I did not purchase a lot, hire an architect or a contractor.  The house I live in was built and lived in by someone else.  When I bought this house, I did not even think about the drawing.

 

I did not make the connection until I read Martha Beck’s article “Go tell Alice.”  The drawing on graph paper was created from somewhere deep within myself.  I never once thought “I HAVE to live in this house.”  It never occurred to me actually finding a house like it could be a reality.  It was not a grand “AH-HA” moment when I connected the drawing to the house I live in.  It was a very subtle realization.  The power of lists.

August 7, 2008

Thankful for a little…

Filed under: Life in Action — laranieberding @ 9:15 am

“Give thanks for a little, and you will find a lot.”
A Hausa proverb from Nigeria

Some of life’s magical moments occur when we are thankful.  I am not speaking of “Oh! Thank you for the flowers.”  I mean the magical moment that happens when the tire on your car blows out while you are driving on the freeway and a good citizen stops to help you change the tire – in the rain.

 

There is something so special when a customer with three kids and a cart overloaded with groceries lets the customer with one item go ahead of them in the check out line.  It is a small gesture.  It is a little moment of thanks that has a ripple effect of impact.  Giving thanks for a little makes the day a little brighter.

August 6, 2008

Quitting for Success

Filed under: Productivity — laranieberding @ 9:15 am

“Learning to quit while you’re not ahead is one of the best financial and life skills you can master.” ~Martha Beck (January, 2008 O Magazine)

 

This is one of those life lessons that  is so much easier to see in others than myself. I am very quick to look at another’s situation and think, ” why don’t they just quit?”  All the while, I cannot see it in myself.

 

One of the best investments I made is hiring a small  business coach.  Cristina Favreau has really helped me focus on what is best for my business.  One of the greatest things she has done for me is teach me how to quit.  I have to admit the first time she brought it to my attention I was working on a project that I was certain would have a large return on my investment.  I knew she was right.  I just could not bring myself to quit.

 

The second time she advised me to quit the project, I told her she was right.  Right then and there, I hung up the phone from our coaching session and I quit the project.  You know what?  My business picked up.  I still miss that project. However, the benefits of leaving have out weighed the stress of staying.

 

When I read Martha Beck’s example of the gambler and the “sunk-cost fallacy”, I realized that is what I was doing.  I was investing my time in that project certain the next day would be the big pay off.  The next day came and went with no pay off, never mind a “big” pay off.  At the end of the day I would tell myself, “well, I invested my time today.  It has to pay off tomorrow.”  Now that I have opened up the time I was spending on that project, the Universe has filled it with more prosperous projects.

 

Funny how quitting can make all the difference.

July 21, 2008

25 Words of Work / Life Wisdom — Pass It On!

Filed under: Blogging, Entertainment — Tags: , , , — laranieberding @ 8:21 am

July 19, 2008

My life story on a postcard…

Filed under: Entertainment — Tags: , — laranieberding @ 4:10 pm

I was in Digg when I saw this blog:

Clever writer. Then, it occurred to me, this is what my life on a postcard would look like:

“The 25 Words of Work / Life Wisdom Writing Project”

Filed under: Blogging, Entertainment — Tags: , , — laranieberding @ 3:11 pm

I created a Twitter account. I am enthralled. I love all the conversations. As I sit in my home office running my business, I feel a lot less isolated. I actually feel as if I have adult interactions during my day. Trust me, it is a rarity and a treat.

It was on Twitter where Vicky @eeUS posted a link to her 25 words in response to Liz Strauss’ @lizstrauss

The 25 Words of Work / Life Wisdom Writing Project

Vicky’s 25 words were inspirational. So much so, I was motivated to check out Liz’s explanation of the project. Then, I was so intrigued, I wanted to give it a try. Here is my offering:

Marriage is overrated.
Marriage is forced by a society obsessed with conformity.
Live up to society standards or be shunned.
Not everyone is for marriage.

July 9, 2008

Will this work?

Filed under: Something to Consider — laranieberding @ 2:17 pm

I saw this post by Deanna on her blog Spiritual Coaching about the Salwen family. The Salwen’s are giving up half of things they own in order to give back to those in need.

The article, “Sale of 1 house will help 30 villages” explains “They talked about selling their cars or other things, but it was Hannah’s mother, Joan, who came up with selling their 6,500-square-foot house, donating half the proceeds and then moving into a house half the size.

For nine years, the family lived in a historic 1912 mansion near downtown Atlanta. It boasts five bedrooms, eight fireplaces, a kitchen that would make any cook jealous and even an elevator.”

Further in the article, “But the Salwens’ house has sat on the market for more than a year. It’s a tough time to sell any house, let alone one with an asking price of nearly $1.8 million.”

My question is: if their story is meant to inspire others to give up half, donate half, then how can they expect someone to buy their house?

It sounds to me as if the ideal buyer is someone who owns a 13,000 square foot house and has it on the market for $3.6 million.

The National Association of Realtors reports the preliminary median sales price of existing single-family homes in the Atlanta area for 2008 as $154,000.

Infoplease reports “According to the National Association of Home Builders, the average home size in the United States was 2,330 square feet in 2004, up from 1,400 square feet in 1970.”

In an increasingly conscience public of “going green” how energy efficient is the house? I would guess the electric bill just to run the air conditioning is one paycheck alone. Evidently not that much. The “Calculate your electric cost” on Michael Bluejay’s web site estimates it would cost $257.00 per month. Again, that is just to run air conditioning and it is simply a guestimate.

Although I think the Salwen’s concept is very noble I wonder how feasible it is. Would you feel guilty buying their house knowing their reason for selling?

If you wanted to buy the house to help the Salwen’s and their cause, why wouldn’t you just donate directly to a worthy cause yourself?

Maybe the answer is the historical society of Atlanta should buy the house and turn it into a museum. Admission fees collected could be donated to America’s Second Harvest.

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Networking never ends…

Filed under: "Make Your Contacts Count" — Tags: , , — laranieberding @ 9:26 am

Who recommended: Lynne Waymon

What I am reading: Make Your Contacts Count (Networking Know-How For Business and Career Success) by Anne Baber and Lynne Waymon

Where in the book: The End

Why I am reading: Learning how to network. Cause believe me, I have no CLUE!

Which quote: “You never outgrow the need to network.”

How this quote adjusted my thinking: So this is the end of my journey through “Make Your Contacts Count.” I am so glad I read this book. I cannot stop recommending it. I think Lynne Waymon must be tired of all the people I refer to her. I am glad I took this journey. It opened my eyes to the type of networker I am. The book gave me practical advice that I can really apply. It was not some high brow academic “blowing smoke up my knickers.” As you can tell, I recommend you read it.

Have you read “Make Your Contacts Count?”  Please leave a comment with your favorite quote, piece of advice or favorite networking story.

July 8, 2008

I love conventions…

Filed under: "Make Your Contacts Count" — Tags: , , — laranieberding @ 9:23 am

Who recommended: Lynne Waymon

What I am reading: Make Your Contacts Count (Networking Know-How For Business and Career Success) by Anne Baber and Lynne Waymon

Where in the book: page 221

Why I am reading: Learning how to network. Cause believe me, I have no CLUE!

Which quote: “Connect at conventions.”

How this quote adjusted my thinking: I love conventions. I wish I could be a professional meeting attendee. Out of the whole “Make Your Contacts Count” book, THIS is the one area where I excel. All of her examples in this chapter I have implemented when attending conventions. The skills presented here seem to flow out of me naturally. Now, if only I could get my networking skills up to this level….

Leave a comment with the convention you love to attend.  Tell us a successful convention experience.

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